The things you are passionate about are not random, they are your calling.
As you pursue those passions & problems surface, stop asking "Why me?" And start proclaiming "Try Me!"
To live is to fight. We just fight in different arenas. We rarely learn from winning. When we lose it forces us to really look at ourselves. Stop focusing on what has and has not happened for you and let God equip you to walk through hell with a smile.
"Therefore my dear brothers & sisters, stand firm! Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, bc you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain" 1 Corinthians 15:58