Have a vision that makes you want to jump out of bed in the morning. And most importantly make sure your mind has a clear definition of what "success" means to you. Success is in the eye of the beholder. Laboring in vain for "good things" is often an easy hamster wheel to run on that leaves you exhausted & frustrated.
Stop believing the lie that successful people have been luckier than you. You have no idea the price that they have paid. Who do you want to be & what are you willing to do about it?
Don't expect people to understand your grind when God didn't give them your vision.
It is easy to mistake the cocoon for a tomb. Keep persevering until the dream that God placed in your heart takes flight. When you lose all of your excuses you will find all your results.
Why not you?