If you put a frog in boiling water it will jump out. If you put a frog in warm water & gradually turn up the heat until the water is boiling, the frog will remain there until it dies.
What environment/addiction/mindset/habit are you lingering in that is gradually killing you? If you are searching for that one person who can change your life go look in the mirror! Jump out!!! Your blessing is waiting on the other side of your leap of faith.